You know how you want to move your life forward, and yet you are still, for some reason, stuck. Self-sabotage is when you have two conflicting desires.
This is not an easy task, but one that we must do at one point or another. We need to find traumatic events, let go of unprocessed emotions, find healthier ways to meet our needs, reinvent our self-image, and develop principles like emotional intelligence and resilience. Overcoming this requires going through a process of deep psychological digging. In reality, self-sabotage is simply the existence of unconscious needs that are met by self-sabotaging behavior. It seems to be a product of self-loathing, lack of confidence, or lack of will. On the surface, self-sabotage looks masochistic. She discusses the root cause and triggers of self sabotage, and recommends actions that will help anyone stop it from taking over their lives.īelow is the detailed yet quick summary of the book: Self Sabotage & Recovery Brianna Wiest makes you feel calm & completely inspired to move forward toward greater things with this book.
It brings up all the unhealed parts of you that you have to reconcile.The Mountain is You is a book about self-sabotage. Real love will be the love you realize that remains even after you close your heart to it, because it sustains itself. This is love because these are all signs that you are closing your heart and to be doing so, there has to be something going through you for you to be able to close off. The love you ran away from because it showed you who you are without the guise of worth given from someone else. The love you’re still not okay with losing, that you’re angry about the love that uprooted your life and contorted your being. You can love many people, but at the end of the day, the love you need to choose is the love that, even if you close your heart to, still moves you. You can choose to close your heart to love, and run away, and avoid it for as long as you can in every way you can think of but if it was really, truly, the other-worldly, almost supernatural kind of love that we can only hope to be graced with at least once in this life experience, it will not leave you. Love can be met and joined with attraction and infatuation and all of that, but love will not fade when those things do.
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